Staring into the Void

This time of the year is a bit like a twilight zone for many of you. The gap between loneliness and hopelessness. Christmas seemed to happen to everyone else, and there doesn’t appear much to look forward to next year, just a lot more of the same shit we say we enjoy but we know […]
How can you feel and be loved when the world is saying you shouldn’t?

By being brave. By hearing things the world seems to be saying, and rejecting them if they harm you. Do you want to know a secret? ‘The world’ isn’t really saying anything. Instead, we’re fixating on things that bring us down because we’re unhappy with who we are. It feels easier to blame ‘the world’, […]
How can we become genuinely caring and not judging of others?

It’s a process that has to start with ourselves. We not only need to love ourselves and stop giving ourselves a hard time, we also need to understand what that love means. It’s a simple thing to say; an easy enough phrase to throw about, but what does it mean to love ourselves? And how […]
What are your opinions on online/internet relationships?

I think they’re great. I’m a fan of any connection. The internet is a fantastic way to cross paths with somebody who, not so long ago, you’d never have known existed. It’s a brilliant example of the way that our human progress is bringing us opportunities. At the risk of sounding like your dad, it’s […]
What is your one major turn on? Bums, boobs, eyes?

Bums, boobs, eyes; arms, waists, thighs… all these things are the shell in which true beauty lives. Maybe you fit the definition of ‘beautiful’ as fed to us by the publishers who hope we’ll buy their magazine that helps us with a special diet. Maybe you fit the concept of ‘perfect’ as given to us […]