Staring into the Void
This time of the year is a bit like a twilight zone for many of you. The gap between loneliness and hopelessness. Christmas seemed to happen to everyone else, and there doesn’t appear much to
December 28, 2017
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My blog is a mixture of posts I make myself, and answers to questions and comments. I ramble, have a tendency to approach things philosophically, and always lean towards empathy, hope and progression.
If something touches you or gives you cause any feels, please feel free to comment, share or privately feel good/seethe.
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How can you feel and be loved when the world is saying you shouldn’t?
By being brave. By hearing things the world seems to be saying, and rejecting them if they harm you. Do you want to know a secret? ‘The world’ isn’t really saying anything. Instead, we’re fixating
December 28, 2017
How can we become genuinely caring and not judging of others?
It’s a process that has to start with ourselves. We not only need to love ourselves and stop giving ourselves a hard time, we also need to understand what that love means. It’s a simple
December 28, 2017
What are your opinions on online/internet relationships?
I think they’re great. I’m a fan of any connection. The internet is a fantastic way to cross paths with somebody who, not so long ago, you’d never have known existed. It’s a brilliant example
December 28, 2017
What is your one major turn on? Bums, boobs, eyes?
Bums, boobs, eyes; arms, waists, thighs… all these things are the shell in which true beauty lives. Maybe you fit the definition of ‘beautiful’ as fed to us by the publishers who hope we’ll buy
December 28, 2017
How can I feel happy again?
Short term: a tub of your favourite ice cream, this song, this book, this video, this audio ;) Long term: can happiness actually be pursued? Or is it a beautiful by-product of a different, more
November 19, 2017
What do you find to be the most attractive feature or quality in someone?
Their heart. Seriously. What attracts me is how somebody treats other people; how they care for those with less than them; how they support and encourage those around them and build others up with love
October 13, 2017
How to love?
This is such an important question, because the answer simultaneously provides solutions to many other related traumas. How can I feel like I’m worthwhile? Where is my sense of happiness/fulfilment? What can I do to
August 9, 2017
Do you think sex is important in a relationship?
To put it clinically, sex is the physical expression of an attraction between two (or more) people. It’s the manifestation of a connection, whether that connection exists for one night, one year, one decade or
July 10, 2017