Assuming you’re straight, do you feel awkward doing gay audios?
I don’t feel awkward making any audios. I try and cater for everybody by being varied in what I record, but mainly, I approach sexuality as something we all share and experience in different ways. There aren’t ‘heteros’ and ‘homos’, there are only ‘humans’, and the way our sexuality is manifested in different ways is […]
How am I able to be open in not only trusting men but also people?
Full question: “In my last relationship I thought my fiancé was “the one.” We had been together for 4 years and 6 months before we were supposed to get married I had found out he had been cheating on me for a year. I am trying to get out into dating but I am too […]
What’s your take on the whole ‘friends with benefits’ thing?
It’s for everybody to decide what level of friendship they want with each friend in their life, so I don’t have any fixed ‘position’ on this one. What I would say is that true friendship is such a spectacular gift, and so rare. To have a friend who genuinely has your back; who sees you […]
Trans Pride
I want to take a moment to publicly stand by my Trans followers. Please remember that no Presidential order, no piece of legislation, company policy or administrative directive will ever define your worth or have anything to say about your value. It’s not about them. People can sometimes have a curious way of catching up. […]
Is it bad I almost started crying during ‘Connection’?
No, it’s not bad at all. One of the things I’m trying to do with these audios is give a sense of intimacy with the listener. I don’t want you just to cum, I want you to feel part of something. Sometimes that’s a fantasy or scenario I create for you to lose yourself in, […]
I have a question: You are driving in the rain…
Full question: “You are driving in the rain. You come across a bus stop with three people waiting. You find the people are your best friend who saved your life once, your soul mate, and an elderly woman who is having a heart attack. You can only carry one other person in your car, and […]
Thoughts on chubby girls?
I’m always a bit taken aback by questions like this. It makes me think you’re asking whether I’d like somebody in spite of being ‘chubby’, which probably means two things: 1) you think chubbiness is in some way a deficiency; and 2) you are – to some extent – defining yourself by your chubbiness. Let’s […]
Thoughts on a New Year
Try typing ‘new year’s day’ into your phone. You’ll probably find it altered to upper case. We know why that is: the cultural importance necessitates a certain gravitas in phonesville, and that’s understandable. But time doesn’t mark us. Actually, it’s the other way around. The start of a new year (or your next birthday, for […]
Do you care if a girl has stretch marks?
You might notice that I don’t make any reference to physicality at any point in my audios. That’s no accident. It doesn’t interest me what colour hair you have, what body size you are or the condition of your skin. My favourite part of your body is your heart. I want to know what you […]
Moving Forward
All of us are waking up today to a changed world. For some, the world has changed for the better; government now feels within reach, priorities that felt neglected are now in play, and somebody relatable has been awarded power, rather than a member of the privileged elite. For others, our potential to grow has […]